At home: safe BDSM practices

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After the scandalous bestseller EL James”50 shades of gray”, girls all over the world literally went crazy. They continually pestered their young people with requests to experiment with ambiguous sexual practices called BDMS (Bandage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism). We will not in any case call these people crazy – after all, every person can decide for themselves what is good and what’s bad, but we will try at least to reduce the home BDMS practice to minimal losses.

В домашних условиях: безопасные БДСМ-практики

So, HOCHU.ua invites you to get acquainted with the security rules of BDMS so that it can be practiced at home.

BINDING

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Forbidden fruit is sweet – so they say when something highly desirable, but It is impossible or impossible. In sex, this rule also works. Binding to BDMS is a common practice, but you do not need to overdo the house. It is enough to tie the partner’s hands behind his head or tie him to the bed so that he (or she) can not touch you. Then you can do whatever your heart desires, but in reasonable redistribution. When tying, you can not tighten ropes, use tape or tape (they are painfully torn from the skin), handcuffs (keys can easily be lost), cable ties (if used incorrectly, the vessels are clamped) and synthetic ropes (scorch the skin). The best means for binding – ties, ribbons, stockings, scarves and special vinyl tapes.  

Under no circumstances do not leave the associated partner alone in a room and always keep on hand shears for quick disposal of improvised shackles.

GAME WITH TEMPERATURE

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BDMS The temperature change often is used to vary the sensations. This game is better to hold, when the partner’s eyes are tied – so he will not know what is being prepared and the sensations will be brighter. In no case, you can not pour a partner with steep boiling water, and then with ice water – this is not a fairy tale “Humpbacked Horse” – none of the partners will not look younger and younger, but the 1st or 2nd degree burns will get easily . Where it is safer to use cold air blowing and massage with a hot device or simply drive ice cubes along the body of the partner, having previously been washed with warm water, otherwise there is a risk of repeating a dangerous focus with an iron crossbar in the winter.  

Forget about body cauterization metal objects and wax with the usual candles.

slap

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BDMS-practice is not without whipping. There are many fans to plant a palm on someone’s bare ass, attack a partner with a whip or flogger and take revenge on him for everything. But this is more and more painful than exciting. Nobody will like (except for avid perverts and lovers of BDSM) be beaten in his own bed. So we follow the rules: the first slaps should be very soft with strokes and over a large area. The strength of the blow increases gradually, concentrate on the same places. Do not forget about the rhythm – slaps should not only be felt, but also heard. Do not lose touch with reality and do not get carried away, so as not to introduce a partner into a semi-faint state from a mini-beating.  

When your game is over flogging, grease suffered skin regenerating cream – she deserved it.

tickling

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With it use a special brushes and brushes made from natural fibers or feathers. Fingers can also go to play. Tickle where your partner likes – he should not laugh hysterically, he should have fun. The most popular places for tickling are the feet, neck, neck, palms, abdomen, inner thigh and forearm. Be sure to arrange a stop word with the partner (in principle, this applies to any BDMS game), so as not to overdo it.  

for tickling are prohibited from using any sharp objects, because the partner can jerk and hurt.

role play

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Normally BDMS-practices with the help of role-playing gamespartner RA should be dipped, humiliate and shame. In a lightened home version, you should not mock and humiliate a loved one. You can just fool around, play rape (not too hard) and fully provide your partner with your body. Do not forget about the costumes. The best suits for a home BDMS suits are a nurse or a nurse, a superior and a subordinate, a teacher and a student, a prostitute and a pimp …  

In role-playing games, you can use slapping, stroking, binding and domination.

SUBMISSION

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Decide which of you will dominate and get down to business. But it is not enough just to give orders and orders – submission must go from the beginning of sex to the victorious end. Prevent any attempts of the partner to do anything without your knowledge, you must fully control the situation, and the partner to do only what you say. Just do not ask the impossible and something really humiliating – see the framework and do not get carried away.  

Even a small degree of subordination to increase sensations, expand the range of possibilities and give pleasure to the partner.

clothespins

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you do not experience a pleasant feeling worn on the body of the clothespins, we are in m more to say – by this procedure, you will feel the pain. Someone is pleased to feel the pain of sex, someone kicks from a powerful release of endorphins after removing pegs, and someone likes to feel a victim. Clothespins can be bought in a sex shop or take ordinary linens (just look at their edges to be smooth and do not stick out springs.) Clothespins cling to their body and partner’s body.To begin with enough 3-5 pcs when get used to the sensations, the amount can be increased . The most sensitive places clothespins for women – nipples and labia, the man – only the nipples, but there may be options for  

be careful meshing clothespins on sexual gu. s – you can damage them or carry infection

GAMES WITH ELECTRICITY

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Sounds tough, but emerges before your eyes the image of a dog with elektroosheynikom that bounce as soon as the owner. presses the button when the pet is guilty. For electrical games with people there are special instruments (dildos, vibrators, anal plugs, electrodes) – the sensations from them are comparable to the treatment of darsonval skin, they are not capable of causing injury and much shaking. Devices cling to the skin, they send electrical charges, muscles contract and the orgasm comes closer. When the electric box gets bored, turn off the electricity and use the toys for their intended purpose.  

And for God’s sake, do not use for games with electricity and home-made devices before using the first professional conduct sensitivity test.

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